Life is unfair and how to get over it and succeed anyway

A few years ago, my family and I went to one of the poorest areas of Mexico over the holidays. We were part of a team building a house for a family in need. It was a wonderful experience to[...]

Published: July 3, 2019
By: Darryl Stewart
Stop with the performance reviews

Traditional performance reviews do more harm than good. Do you think it is a good idea for parents to meet with each of their children regularly and rate them in all areas of their performance as children? Maybe it would[...]

Published: June 24, 2019
By: Darryl Stewart
Doting parents and controlling bosses just don’t get it

I recently attended a driver education class with my 15-year-old daughter. It was the first class and the kids had to bring a parent or guardian. The program was introduced and there were lots of questions from the audience. Sometimes[...]

Published: June 17, 2019
By: Darryl Stewart
It is official: you need to stop saying “you guys”

I know I am late to the party on this, but judging by how often I still hear the phrase “you guys”—sometimes from my own mouth—English-speaking North Americans still struggle with this. Twice in the last few weeks I have[...]

Published: June 10, 2019
By: Darryl Stewart
Which babysitter is the hero?

You are a first-time parent. Your little darling is now 22-months-old and, so far, when you want a night out, you have always called the grandparents. You realize that you are wearing them out and your “baby” is now a[...]

Published: June 3, 2019
By: Darryl Stewart

IBEX Payroll extends our profound respect and immeasurable gratitude to all the ancestors and keepers of the land on whose traditional territories our work takes place. We acknowledge that we are on Treaty 1 territory, the traditional gathering place of the Anishinaabe, Cree, Oji-Cree, Dakota and Dene people and the traditional homeland of the Métis people. This land is sacred, historical, and significant. 

Every time we acknowledge this truth, we have an invitation and an opportunity to reflect on the wrongs of the past, what we do in the present, and what we can do to continually honour the people whose lands and water we benefit from today. 

This statement only acts as a first step in honouring the land we reside on and its peoples, and must be paired with education, understanding and informed action.