The selfish reason to care about employee engagement

By Darryl Stewart, Head of the Herd

What does it really matter what I do at work? It is what I do at home that really matters. Why put so much energy into building an engaging kind of workplace when I should be focused on being a great husband and father? Why bother?

This past weekend I was camping with my family. My 12 year old son was hanging around as I was packing up the mini-van. We were joking around a bit as I worked and then he said something that I am still thinking about. He said, in a very tentative way, “Can I help dad?”

My son is hard to understand for many people, but he seems easy to understand to me. He can be frustrating to others that don’t know him very well, but to me he is the most loveable kid in the world. He seems selfish to many, but it is really just that he is so busy in his internal world of exploration that he does not notice the needs of others much.

By spending time with my son, by learning what his passions are, by letting him make mistakes, by asking him open ended questions and trying hard to truly listen, by not judging him when he does questionable things – but instead asking him “Why?”. By sharing myself, my past mistakes and my passions with him, I hope I am building a strong relationship that will survive the upcoming teenage turmoil and turn into a lifelong close friendship.

I have had many signs that I am on the right path with my son. This little unexpected question is just the latest one.

In learning and practicing engaging management, I am honing the skills of coaching, listening, communicating effectively and providing non-judgmental feedback. I am not a perfect father, far from it, but I know I am a much better dad because of my journey at work.

There is no better reason why.

IBEX Payroll extends our profound respect and immeasurable gratitude to all the ancestors and keepers of the land on whose traditional territories our work takes place. We acknowledge that we are on Treaty 1 territory, the traditional gathering place of the Anishinaabe, Cree, Oji-Cree, Dakota and Dene people and the traditional homeland of the Métis people. This land is sacred, historical, and significant.

Every time we acknowledge this truth, we have an invitation and an opportunity to reflect on the wrongs of the past, what we do in the present, and what we can do to continually honour the people whose lands and water we benefit from today.

This statement only acts as a first step in honouring the land we reside on and its peoples, and must be paired with education, understanding and informed action.